Learning from past experiences have help me understand wht this phrase meant. Learning to accept this phrase in life. Although is not a bible verse for comfirmation. but it is a way of life that all should accept. Like as Chrisitians, the Lord would provide someone which is suitable...and not only suitable but prefectly fitted for us...if we are to continue to move on and trust in him. As a friend or as a life partner is a same. I believe that people we know comes to strenghen, encourage and help us grow.
Nice people in our lives...would encourage us to be a stronger person. Others might be not nice of a person but still help us to realize that we should forgive and forget their wrong deeds as we arent prefect as well. They should also be given another chance to live a life that is pleasing. A Christian testimony is very important and i'm still struggling in it. (need prayers here).
Whenever i feel that someone is talking behind my back... i would feel extremely offended and i'll just feel very bad about that particular person. Sometimes by sharing with others makes me feel a little comfortable at first and later doubt if i'm doing the right thing. I'm a very suspicous person...and because of that it'll often hurt my relationship with my friends. Usually those whom i trust would remain trustable...maybe because i grow up with them...and there is how i trust them with my cares and worries and prayers that i needed. There are still some of my friends whom i dun really trust that i share my worries with...
Its some kind of hard to get into this group of friends in my college. Not to say that becoz i must be included in. But sometimes i realize that i'm not given any task to accomplish for them. Is it because of my past that made them thinking that way. Or am i just being too sensitive again. ( i hope i could change my sensitivity a little bit).
Over sensitive wouldnt help much. I'm learning to accept things like these...that i should care less abt how others view me and continue living a life that is a blessing to others. There are still many thing that i do not know and i'm still learning. Nope i think i'll just forget abt this and continue on. This would save all the trouble...Note that i'm just typing in this blog to overcome this issue and not let anyone that i know, know abt these things. Only to those who read my blog....just to let you know that i need your prayers to respect others and continue to be an encouragement to others...a good chrsitian testimony to others. 
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